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PROGRAM SATURDAY


The first and the last workshop are open to everyone. In between, you can spontaneously decide which of the three workshops you want to attend. The program is subject to change.  

 

ESC Special: This time, the whole weekend is dedicated to the ESC final, which we will watch together on Saturday evening. And that’s not all – all workshops are named after ESC songs. Click on the sound icon to listen in and discover what’s waiting for you. Or get in the mood with the NKD MEN ESC playlist on Spotify. Have fun!


To visualize how much physical closeness and eroticism a workshop can contain, we use a color scale, which we depict as a spectrum. Read more about our Color Scale here.

Sat, 16 May 2026 | 10:30 - 12:00
Ausziehritual

making your mind up

OPENING CEREMONY & UNDRESSING

We welcome you, share the core agreements, and help you arrive with sharing and grounding exercises.

You'll practice consent, learn about the Color Scale, and are invited to join the Undressing Ritual – always in choice, always with respect.


Sat, 16 May 2026 | 12:15 - 13:15 

LOVE SHINE A LIGHT

SOUND MEDITATION & RITUAL OF ARRIVING with RAMÓN (d/e)

 

Before we dive into the vibrant energy of the festival, I invite you to a space of stillness and deep arrival.

We have already shed our physical layers; now, we take a moment to look beneath the surface and tend to our inner landscape.

 

Accompanied by the atmospheric sounds of live percussion, the meditative breath of the Shakuhachi (Japanese bamboo flute), we will each create a safe, imaginary sanctuary with the help of a guided meditation from "Internal Family Systems". A fireplace in the mind. Here, we can invite our fears, expectations, and hopes to step out of the shadows. Instead of pushing them away, we practice the Zen art of "letting them be". We listen to what these parts of us need to feel safe and welcome them all to the festival.

 

After this individual journey, we conclude by forming a personal intention and sharing it in a circle.

 

This sacred act of being seen transforms our individual arrival into a shared journey of community, allowing us to be fully present with ourselves and with others.

IN YOUR EYES

BLINDFOLDED TOUCH EXPERIENCE

with FIREFLY (e)  

 

We explore what it means to truly trust and surrender. When sight is gently removed, every other sense awakens — the warmth of a hand, the sound of breath, the vibration of closeness. Guided with care and presence, you’ll move beyond words into a deeper field of connection. As one leads and the other follows, something soft opens — awareness sharpens, hearts attune, and intimacy grows.

 

This is an invitation to let go of control, to listen through your body, and to rediscover the simple, profound joy of feeling and being felt.

WADDE HADDE DUDDE DA

GENITAL SHOW & TELL

with JULIAN (d/e) 

 

This workshop invites you to explore and share your own genitals with curiosity, appreciation, and self-determination.

 

In a protected, consent-based space, we come together for a Show & Tell, sharing what we choose to show and speak about — appearance, sensations, experiences, questions, or desires.

 

You decide your boundaries at all times. Listening, genuine curiosity, and respectful questions are at the heart of this experience.

 

This is not about performance or comparison, but about visibility, body knowledge, and the joy of diversity.

 

The workshop concludes with a brief photo session focused on close-up images of genitals.


L U N C H   B R E A K 
Sat, 16 May 2026 | 14:30 - 16:00

SLOMO

THE ART OF SLOW MOTION

with PINTO (e) 

 

This massage workshop invites you to explore the beauty of slow touch that fosters deep emotional connections and heightened intimacy. Uncover new dimensions of your sensory experience as you learn to cultivate presence and awareness in every interaction. As we cultivate awareness and embrace the art of teasing touch, we awaken our senses to the subtle whispers of desire.

 

In this sacred exchange, every caress becomes an invitation, each moment an opportunity for shared discovery. Together, we will transform our interactions into a beautifully experience, exploring the body of your partner.

 

Where trust and desire intertwine, leading us toward deeper intimacy and uncharted realms of pleasure.

AMAR PELOS DOIS

LOVE FOR TWO - IN THE SPACE BETWEEN TOUCH AND SIGHT

with LOVE DRAGON & FIREFLY (d/e) 

 

In this intimate Tango lesson, we meet where movement becomes stillness and stillness begins to move. Two bodies lean into one another — not to lead or follow, but to listen. Each breath, each shift of weight, becomes a soft conversation that might go unnoticed by the world, yet speaks of care, trust, and surrender.

 

Around them, artists watch and translate what can’t be said. The charcoal follows what the eyes can’t fully capture — a pulse, a hesitation, a tender pause before motion returns.

 

This is not a dance of show, but of devotion: a practice of seeing and being seen, of offering without demand. Even when one heart is still learning to love again, the other can hold the rhythm — quietly, patiently — in love for two.

TOY

A LOVE LETTER TO GENITALS

with ALEXEANDER (d/e) 

 

Bring your entire past, present and future of your genitals with you. Your genitals and you in a lustful connection. Alone and at the same time in a group. You see and feel your own genitals and many others with curiosity, respect and joy.

 

Your journey ends with you writing a love letter to your genitals and to the genitals of another man. You or another person will then read it aloud to the group. Genitals are the stars of this show. They are in the spotlight of attention. They are greeted and appreciated with gazes, but not yet touched.


Sat, 16 May 2026 | 16:30 - 18:00

hold me closer

QUEERFIGHT RITUAL

with ALEXANDER (d/e) 

 

Queerfight is an invitation to meet one another in direct physical contact and to explore closeness, tension, and dynamic through our bodies. Within a playful and mindful framework, we engage through movement, weight, support, resistance, and release — alone, with one partner, or with several.

 

These physical encounters may be sensual, humorous, powerful, playful, serious, challenging, or liberating. They arise in the moment and are free to change. At times we move toward each other and embrace; at other moments we stay, evade, lean gently into one another, or find our edge.

 

Queerfight is a consent-based physical practice in which we sense our own presence and strength as well as that of our partners. We explore how much closeness we want, when we need support, and when we desire space again.

FAIRYTALE

PARTNER YOGA & CUDDLES

with JORDAN (e) 

 

In this workshop we will work in pairs ‘fairy couples’ (find a partner beforehand if you wish).

 

We will start with a ‘Fairy’ dance with Violin to get us warm before moving into Yoga stretches with another Fairy.

I will guide you through various postures and movements with a partner building communication, trust and balance.

 

For the last 30 minutes there will be a relaxation with Fairy Violin sounds, with the option to cuddle or even nap with partner(s).

EAT YOUR SALAD

THE ORAL PLEASURE PIZZA

with PINTO (e)

 

What do you want to do to me with your mouth and tongue? In this workshop, we will start our experience by exploring the endless possibilities and skills that your mouth and tongue can offer, teasing and creating new sensations on your partner's body.

 

It’s all about creativity, focusing on oral experiences without using hands. Discover how sound, temperature, humidifying, biting, kissing, blowing, whispering, and massaging can elevate your intimate interactions.

 

NOW imagine if you could put your desires and wishes like pizza toppings and delight yourself in this indulgent and erotic experience! Let's cook this pizza together and eat it bite by bite—uh la la!

 

Come prepared to share, experiment, and savor the delights of creativity in intimacy!

 


Sat, 16 May 2026 | 18:15 - 18:30
Gay Tantra

TOGETHER

SHARING IN FAMILIES with JULIAN (d/e) 

 

We meet in small groups to share, reflect and digest our experiences of the day.


Sat, 16 May 2026 | 18:45 - 20:15
Gay Tantra
D I N N E R   B R E A K   A T   T H E   S A M E   T I M E 

BARA BADA BASTU

RITUAL OF THE ELEMENTS with ALEXANDROS (d/e) 

You experience sauna, smoke and touch as a powerful combination. Alexandros enriches the sauna area with special infusions, gentle smoke and small surprises.


Sat, 16 May 2026 | 20:30 - 23:59
Gay Tantra

NAKED VIEWING of THE ESC FINAL

Join us for a cozy, naked watch party of the Eurovision Song Contest Grand Final in the Yoga Space, projected on the big screen and filled with Eurovision magic.

If you’re up for it, take part in our ESC Bingo: every full line wins you a little special treat during the next performance. Douze points for luck and courage!

 

Please keep all activities calm and mindful so the show (and its dramatic key changes) can be fully enjoyed.

For livelier games, animated conversations, and wilder fun, the kitchen, cuddle room, and sauna are open and waiting. Let the glitter shine — and may the best song win!



CUDDLE SPACE

You can withdraw to this room or cuddle up with others. No sexual acts take place here.

GARDEN

When the weather is nice, the garden is ideal for conversations. 

SAUNA SPACE

The sauna is hot from 18:45 - 00:00!